When my mother-in-law Esther, and later my father-in-law, Sam, hid in Poland during World War II, they weren’t just hiding from the Germans but also from their Polish neighbors. Citing research done by Jan Grabowski and Barbara Engelking in my book, My Soul is Filled with Joy: A Holocaust Story, I share how Polish people hunted the hidden Jews for rewards or sometimes, just for sport. Polish people would betray hidden Jews in the countryside, with devastating results for the Jews and for the Polish families that were helping them. I’m grateful for the honest, meticulous and powerful work done by Grabowksi and Engelking.
Grabowski is a Polish-Canadian history professor at the University of Ottawa and Engelking is the founder and director of the Polish Center for Holocaust Research in Warsaw. In a 1,600-page work that Grabowski and Engelking co-edited titled: Night Without End: The Fate of Jews in Selected Counties of Occupied Poland, they document the fate of Polish Jews who tried to hide from the Nazis. It’s written in Polish. I looked it up on Amazon and found that the book description is also in Polish. I copied and pasted the description into google translate and, though the English translation is stilted, I want to share what google provided:
In all the counties we examined, the greatest number of Jews sought help, not in towns, but in nearby villages – at their neighbors’ homes. The ability to survive largely depended on the willingness of these neighbors – Christians, on whether they were able to overcome the fear of the threat posed by the hiding Jews to the rural community. It was not favored by the applicable group norms, anti-Semitism that was everywhere, and the mechanisms of social conformism. All the more we should emphasize the courage and unparalleled sacrifice of the Righteous. All the more we should admire those who were able to oppose not only German legal regulations, but also the written and unwritten rules of group life.
The pronunciation of the numbers is impeccable: two out of every three Jews in search of rescue – have died. The studies included in the volumes provide evidence indicating a significant – and greater than it has been previously thought – scale of participation of local residents in the destruction of Jewish fellow citizens.
Sixteen hundred pages – imagine the years of work that went into this book and the tears that were shed by the Polish researchers uncovering the truth of what their countrymen did during the war. These historians are, to me, heroes. They are looking under the rocks of history and shining a light where dark truths lay dormant.
But no good deed goes unpunished. Grabowski and Engelking were sued by 81-year-old Filomena Leszczynska. Ms. Leszczynska claims that in their book her Uncle, Edward Malinowski is wrongly accused of assisting in the murder of Jews. Ms. Leszczynska argued that her uncle was a Polish hero and saved Jews. The plaintiff maintains that her family’s good name was damaged.
Well, on February 9, 2021, the Warsaw District Court ruled that Grabowski and Engelking must issue a written apology for inaccurately writing that Uncle Edward, “robbed a Jewish woman during the war and contributed to the death of Jews hiding in a forest in Malinowo in 1943, when Poland was under German occupation. They were also ordered to apologize for “violating his honor.”[1]
It’s not all bad — the court ruled that Grabowski and Engelking don’t have to pay the 100,000 zlotys ($27,017) demanded. Why? Because as the judge writes, “it might have a cooling effect on academic research.”[2]
I believe that this lawsuit is a direct outgrowth of the Polish government’s attempt to rewrite history and engage in a competition over who had it worse – the Poles or the Jews? The twisted narrative is that Polish people didn’t assist with the genocidal murder but helped the Jews during the war. The large numbers of Polish Righteous Among the Nations is often cited as evidence. In fact, to claim that the Polish nation had anything to do with the murder of three million of its Jewish citizens is against a law passed in 2018.
While it is certainly true that there were Polish Christians who helped Jews, including the Stys family, without whose help Sam and Esther surely would have died, “[h]istorians debate how many Poles aided the Nazi death machine, with estimates ranging from tens of thousands to hundreds of thousands.”[3]
The Times of Israel reports that a “2019 study on Holocaust remembrance in Europe argued that the Poles are among the “worst offenders” when it comes to . . . . ‘minimizing their own guilt in the attempted extermination of Jews.’ According to the study, conducted by researchers from Yale and Grinnell colleges, the government in Warsaw has ‘engaged in competitive victimization, emphasizing the experience of Polish victims over that of Jewish victims. The government spends considerable effort on rewriting history rather than acknowledging and learning from it,’ the study found.”[4]
While we rejoice in Sam and Esther’s survival, we must take a hard look at what happened to most Polish Jews who tried to escape the death grip of the Nazis. All too often, they were betrayed or murdered by Poles. For example, Esther’s first husband, Moishe Kwiatek was murdered in the forest by a Polish man and his mother and sister were betrayed in hiding by their Polish neighbors.
Esther and Sam never got over the betrayal of their friends and neighbors. They told their children never to step foot in finstere (dark) Poland. I heard them often say: “the Poles were worse than the Germans.” This, coming from two people who survived with the help of Christian Poles.
What are the lesson to learn from this lawsuit?
What are the lessons to learn from betrayal?
I don’t know. I am struggling.
[1] Gera, Vanesa, Scislowska, Monika, Poland Orders Scholars to Apologize in Case That Could Muzzle Research, Times of Israel, February 9, 2021.
[2] Id.
[3] Id.
[4] Id.